You based somewhere remote in Australia? I spent 8 months in Melbourne a couple years ago on a round-the-world trip and had a great time

Spent 6 months in the outback too when I was a teenager!
If you're looking to tinker with this till it works, here are some pointers:
SSH into the RPI3 and cd /var/www to mess with PHP/JS, set app/config/config.php $devmode to
true so you can edit the JS in place.
In theory, you should be able to get it basically working through Rune with Franks command in this thread.
You can run shell commands with PHP using
exec.
I'd recommend checking out the
D3 library for Javascript. This is a popular library for crunching and displaying data in pretty much any way you can think of, with
1000s of demos you can hack to do your bidding. For example, this could form the basis for the scan you mentioned (both visually and mathematically):
https://bl.ocks.org/efekarakus/cc7303456841523f37dd
You'll just need to figure out how to pump the data from the tuner into it.
PS. I agree with you to some extent about car audio

However I have spent a lot of time sound-proofing my car, and my theory is, since I know where me and my passengers ears are going to be (roughly) it should be possible to make something very very nice
Cheers.