Ok
Just in case someone faces this.
Follow cmh714 post to install create_ap
make sure you have the correct hostapd for your wifi adapter (google if you don't know I think I got mine from here
http://www.jenssegers.be/43/Realtek-RTL8188-based-access-point-on-Raspberry-Pi)
before you run create_ap with the correct flags to test your configuration, you have to make sure wpa_supplicant is not interfering (that was my issue). so run
ps aux | grep 'wpa_supplicant -B' | head -1 | cut -d " " -f 8 | xargs kill
to kill it. Make sure it is killed by running
ps ax | grep "wpa_supplicant -B" | grep -v grep
and see you get no output. If you do, change the "-f 8" flag in the first command to "-f X" where X is a number. check what goes, start from 1.
then test create_ap (use --daemon --driver rtl871xdrv if you have the 8188 chip).
When you're satisfied, edit the create_ap.services as cmh714 said.
With the create_ap you put in usr/bin, at the beginning before the "usage" part, add the above "ps aux | .... | xargs kill" line, preceded and followed by a "sleep 5". save and enable the service. reboot. done.